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7) Youth Ministry and Pastoral Care: Warning Signs of Suicide

Commentary

  • Direct suicide threats or comments such as, ” I wish I were dead,”  “My family would be better off without me,” and “I have nothing to live for”
  • A previous suicide attempt, no matter how minor.  Four out of five people who commit suicide have made at least one previous attempt.
  • Preoccupation with death in music, art, and personal writing
  • Loss of family member, pet, or boy/girlfriend through death, suicide, abandonment, or break-up
  • Family disruptions such as unemployment, serious illness, relocation, or divorce
  • Disturbances in sleeping and eating habits and in personal hygiene
  • Declining grades and lack of interest in school or hobbies that had previously been important
  • Drastic changes in behavior patterns, such as quiet, shy person becoming extremely gregarious
  • Pervasive sense of gloom, helplessness, and hopelessness
  • Withdrawal from family members and friends, and feelings of alienation from other significant others
  • Giving away prized possessions and otherwise “getting their affairs in order”
  • Series of “accidents” or impulsive, risk-taking behavior