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7) Youth Ministry and Pastoral Care: Substance Abuse

Commentary

The following is a list of symptoms that may indicate alcohol or drug usage

  • Behavior changes
  • Extreme mood swings (e.g., easy temperament may be nasty, irritable, defiant)
  • Unreasonable anger at inappropriate times and not in proportion to situation; especially when parents or youth ministers interfere with their plans.
  • Lying
  • Change of friends
    • sudden avoidance of old friends
    • new friends not known to youth ministers or parents
    • new friends home or to the program
    • friends known to be involved with drugs
  • Consistently avoids contact with family
    • spends most time away from home
    • comes home and goes directly to room, does not interact with anyone
    • spends a lot of time sleeping in front of the TV set
    • receives many phone calls from unknown friends;
    • does not want parents to pick up the phone;
    • calls take place behind closed doors in hushed voices
  • Eating habits
    • loss of weight;
    • avoidance of meals, “not hungry”
    • loss of appetite; can usually “explain” reason
    • has “munchies” (i.e., eats an unusually large amount of junk food.)
  • School problems
    • drop in performance and grades
    • parent being called to school because of problems
    • unreasonable behavior
    • accused of stealing
    • unusual amount of tardiness, missed classes, absenteeism, usually without parents’ prior knowledge
  • Change in activities, hobbies, loss of interest in previously important activities
    • discontinuation of favorite hobbies and pastimes
    • general lack of motivation to do anything; boredom, “I don’t care”  attitude
  • Questionable money management
    • inability to explain where money, even large sums, is spent
    • possession of a lot of money from an unknown source
    • some fairly expensive items that cannot be reasonably explained
    • does many things that cost money even when he/she has none
  • Appearance/Disappearance of “things”
    • possessions disappear always with excuses
    • sandwich bags, aluminum foil in pockets
    • regular use of eye drops
    • drug related objects always with an explanation
    • empty liquor bottles
    • watered down liquor in parent’s liquor cabinet
  • Illness
    • frequently “ill” in the morning and stays home from school
    • frequently comes home from school “ill”
    • makes miraculous recoveries in evening and has to go out
    • Smells of alcohol or marijuana smoke
    • Looks glassy-eyed, mumbles, isn’t coherent