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7) Youth Ministry and Pastoral Care: Seeking Additional Information

Commentary

On rare occasions, a pastoral caregiver may need to seek additional information in these situations. If this becomes necessary, consider the following information:

Questions to Ask

Whether by phone or in person, your questions should include the following:

  • Are you licensed?
  • What is your educational training and background?
  • What type of therapy do you offer or prefer?  (What are the therapist’s theories?  How does he or she work with clients?)
  • Do you have experience with this particular problem?
  • How will I know the treatment is working?
  • How often do you see clients and how long do sessions last?
  • When do you see clients?  (Can the therapist accommodate your schedule?)
  • What will treatment cost?
  • Will some or all of the cost be covered by health insurance?

What to Avoid

Every profession has its share of unprofessional and/or unethical practitioners, and the field of mental health is no exception.  Some signs that a potential mental health provider may not be an appropriate resource for a crisis situation include:

  • The therapist makes a quick diagnosis without asking for much information from you
  • The therapist offers a quick or guaranteed solution to the problem
  • The therapist seems uncomfortable with questions about his or her educational background, experience, and license.
  • The therapist is vague or noncommittal about fees.
  • The therapist says he or she has the answers and turns down a request for additional referrals.
  • The first interview includes intimate questions about sex or other matters not related to the problem.
  • The therapist’s ad in the Yellow Pages makes extravagant claims.